Over Paying

PimSay.......So like i said in my about me, i am tired of my dawgs over paying in the beginning just to get some ass on the hook. If your goal is to be out there playing, hence playa, then you need to organize your game so you have time to play. The last thing you want to do is get a woman use to talking to you everyday, seeing you every nite, texting you 24/7 and worse yet, you responding. Her expectations are through the roof. Who's playin who? Now you wanna holla at some new chick and aint got no damn room to manuever. Now what is your dumb ass gone do?

First thing you need to do is give it some thought from the beginning. You've got the number, cool. Put some distance between the calls, not weeks, but a day or two or three here and there should be good. Now, on those days when you do talk to her, your game needs to right. You make sure she feels like there's nothing else you would rather be doing than being in the moment with her. Make sure you end the conversation during a good flow with the excuse of another commitment, other plans, something to show that you have a life, you have something going on, even if you don't. I know it may sound like it contradicts the previous sentence, but trust me, it all works together. Next thing, how are you gonna be a playa and you've got 4 or 5 technical devices on your hip ringing, buzzing and beeping. She got 8 different ways to contact you. Pick a number, any number, but make it only one contact number. And you have voice mail for a reason, use it. Don't answer the phone everytime they call. It's very bad training. Act like you have a life even if you don't.


Hopefully you're beginning to get the point. Listen dawgs, there is more here, a lot more. But the bottom line is this, if you're gonna do your playa thing, you need some space to wag your tails.

So, tell me what's on your mind. What have you seen out there that runs against the game? Let's blog about it and see where it goes. I welcome all comments.