Why am I 35+ and still single??? she asks....

Why am I 35+ and still single? she asks....

There is no definitive answer for why a woman would be 35+ and still single.  It is very much an individual journey. A journey with ups and downs, twists and turns that are unique to every 35+ single woman out there. 

Now this post isn't for those women who are reading this right now and thinking to themselves, "Hmph, I'm single right now cause I wanna be".  That right there is a whole other post just waiting to be written. 

This is for those women who honestly can't understand why no man has swept them off their feet by now.  For the sake of full disclosure ladies, I really don't know why you're 35+ and can't exhale yet.  But let me run a few possible reasons by you that have come to me over the years......

Maybe you're 35+ and still single because.............

...you've spent the last decade measuring guys up against your list of 'Must Haves' and never spent any time working on your own 'Must Haves'.  How interesting are you? How deep is your pool?  Remember ladies, you're not the only ones with checklists.

...you've spent 6 of your prime years engaged to some guy believing that he was going to marry you.  It would have been  6+, but his baby mamma 'To Be' didn't want their child born out of wedlock. 

...when you were in college, you thought it was a good idea to give blow jobs at a frat party while being video taped. YOUTUBE....Who Knew? Can't blame that one on the Henni.


...when you were 23, if he didn't have a yellow gold grill and Thug Life ink'd across his chest, then he wasn't mysterious enough for you.  Now you're 35+ and trying to figure out your own damn mystery.

...when you were 25, you had sex with him on the first night and woke up at his place thinking he was your man--only to be asked to leave so he could meet his boo for Sunday Brunch.

...when you were 27, you spent 2 years thinking he really was gonna leave his wife for you.

...when you were 30, you married him believing that he only smoked crack on the weekends.

...when you were 33, you didn't realize that that loud noise you were hearing was your biological clock ticking like a BOMB!

Now here you are, 35+ and still single.....WTF?

Next Monday, PimpSay offers some hope.