Monday, August 10, 2009

Ladies, YOU gotta work as a Team

We won't change until you make us change. Don't take this all on your shoulders individually, it's the collective you (women) I'm talking to.

I can't tell you how many times I've had to listen to women complain about why we men do the things we do, why we say the things we say and why we treat you the way we do.
It's very simple. The reason we won't change is because we don't have to. We know that if you don't do the things we want you to do, believe the things we tell you or tollerate the way we treat you, basically put up with our bullshit, then we will find another woman or two who will. Maybe even a friend of yours.

Listen, most of us men know it's not right the way we do you, but the truth is, 'YOU' make it sooo easy for us to be with you that when a woman comes along with requirements and a set of standards we have to live up to in order to be with her, we move on. Why do all of that work when the next woman in line will do anything just to say she has a man. You can be mad if you want, but you know I'm not lyin.
If you want us to be better men, then 'YOU' have to be better women. "YOU' need to work together and raise your standards for us men to be with 'YOU'. If we know that we have to raise our game to get with "YOU', then guess what, we will raise our game like you wouldn't believe. The problem is, "YOU' guys betray each other. 'YOU' break ranks, 'YOU' have weak links in your chain, making it easier for us to pick 'YOU' off one chicken head at a time.

Like I said ladies, I know it's not right, but this aint about what's right. It's about what is.
And what it is is...............when 'YOU' step up your game, we'll step up our game.

Ladies first.

2 comments:

  1. Thank you Thank you Thank you...for the honesty.

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  2. Thank you for recognizing honesty when you here it. Keep followng, I appreciate it.

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